TANYA: Brave Teen Beats Odds with Support and Services of Domestic Violence Program

Thousands of individuals depend on domestic violence shelters to escape from life-threatening situations. There they are able to begin a journey of recovery and stability through the unique programs and services provided. One local teenage girl’s experience provides perspective into the long-term value these shelters currently provide.

Last year, thirteen-year-old Tanya was removed from her mother’s custody by Child Protective Services and brought to a domestic violence shelter. Abused and brutalized by her mother and her mother’s boyfriends since infancy, Tanya was a scared, withdrawn teenager, barely able to speak. Tanya had not seen a doctor since age three and hadn’t attended school in two years. Tanya had also been sexually assaulted and was actively using drugs.

At the shelter, Tanya was welcomed with open arms. The staff helped Tanya stabilize emotionally and physically through therapy, provided much needed medical and dental care and gave Tanya necessary tools to repair her damaged body and spirit. Although difficult, Tanya began to make friends, develop trust and enjoy her life again. She became a role model for other children, always extending a compassionate hand to the girls who arrived lonely and frightened. Tanya began to give more back to the program than she took from it and was a success in school. Tanya spent nine-months at the shelter and now lives with a foster family. She continues to do well and is on her way to living the life she deserves.

Access to shelter is crucial to thousands of individuals like Tanya. Deeper cuts to state funding for programs that protect public safety and victims of domestic violence would be detrimental to women, children, and youth – compromising the well-being of our state. Advocate for a responsible state budget – one that protects our most vulnerable residents.